Happy New Year my loves, doesn’t 2019 genuinely feel newish?! Gratitude I really want to start this post solely by expressing my gratitude to those of you who actually read these things, watch my vlogs and keep up to date with me on socials. Without you guys I would not be able to justify my time doing these things so thank youuuuuuu from the bottom of my little heart. As you may guess from the above, one of my only resolutions is to show more gratitude and generally just be gentler on myself. Less negative thoughts, less doubts, less time spent on undeserving things/people, you know, the usual. Now these are things that I do already practice but would like to really master. Of course, I’m not perfect. I posses attributes that I don’t exactly love about myself but I’m learning to work on them in a more constructive, positive way. In…
Happy New Year my lovelies! This is a obviously a very late post but I have really just wanted time to myself. I’m sure you can all relate. Now I have definitely slacked on the blog front, I wont even pretend. Its like as soon as December hit I found myself too busy, too tired, just too full of excuses to sit and write a post. However I am back and hopefully better! The days following the new year are always strange ones, exhausted from the Christmas period but buzzing with the thought of a whole new year ahead, I find it best to spend those days thinking, reflecting and planning. New year, same me? I mean I’m pretty happy with the current me but isn’t there always room for improvement? maybe an upgraded me with different goals and more money! IJN To help stay organised and on top of my goals I use a diary, religiously. The iPhone calendar/notes just doesn’t cut it for…
How many times have you let fear dictate your life? Can you believe it took me nearly three months to release Tiannamarissa.com to the world. I honestly look back now like what the f*ck was I waiting for? Okay so I did continuously make minor adaptations. It also did take me a little while to customise it to the image I had in my head. This is my baby of course I wanted it to be perfect! Realistically though, that only took a few weeks, so what was I really doing for months? Stalling, that’s what. I continuously thought insecure, negative, self-destructive thoughts such as “who do I think I am, no one’s going to read this, why are you wasting your time” the list goes on. I mean since when did I even care what people thought? The Cardi in me however was like, girl you betttaaaaa. So I did! I swear when clicking the ‘make…
“The person most likely to be a millionaire by 23” I’m 24. That is what I wrote about myself in my Primary School leavers book lol. Gotta love the confidence Im a big believer in “if your not happy, leave” and that goes for everything! Its also no secret that Im a university dropout. It was a path I didn’t feel right on and a course I just really wasn’t enjoying. So I came home a little disappointed with myself, degree less and to no job or car and I was broke as hell lmao but the worst part was I felt lost and pretty directionless. The only certainty I had was that I enjoyed Marketing and was pretty good at it. Why I didn’t just get a degree in Marketing I don’t know. But guess what? its been the most beneficial decision I’ve ever made. The only right path is YOUR path Now I really salute every single person that sees it through…
Or so I’ve been told.. LOVE THE SKIN YOUR IN I promise you the worst thing you can ever do is hate yourself and your appearance or compare yourself to someone else. Any older and wiser woman will tell you, It’s a downward spiral and with such a negative and self-harming way of thinking you can make allll the changes you like but deep down, you will never be content. Self-Love Embrace what God gave you and learn to love it, I’m not saying you can’t strive to have a smaller waist, thicker thighs or slimmer arms but learn to love what you have whilst you work for what you want. The more you fall in love with yourself the more you’ll love the process and every step will seem that little bit easier. You know what they say ‘the most beautiful thing a woman can wear is confidence’. STRAIGHT FACTS! Work For It…
Opens up Google.. “How to get over my ex?” Lets be real now, most of us have done it, some of you will do it, at some rock bottom point or another. When you have exhausted allllll other possible routes and you’re sitting there, realities hit like damn, this is it, the end of the road. Googling ‘how to get over my ex’ is nothing to be ashamed of nor should It be laughed at, the fact that you’re already taking what must be a necessary step to move on is strength in itself, so give ya’self a pat on the back, please! Now I’m so far from a relationship expert and I won’t pretend I have all the answers cause I don’t, what I do have are very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired.. lmao na lemme chill this is serious.. but I do have experience, in abundance! I can…
